Kismat ka Maara Insaan
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Aayiye chalte hin story ki taraf. Story me main role jo ada kar raha hi uska naam hi Abdul Razzaq. Aur saari kahani usi ki lafzon me sunayi gayi hi.
Dosto mera naam hi Syed Abdul Razzaq aur Devanhalli shaher me rahene waala hon. Kahani shuru karne se pahele mi aapko is kahani ke alag alag roles ke naaam batadun tu aage aapko kahani ke beech me naam aaye tu pareshani nahi hogi. Chalo mi aapko list bana kar batata hon, hum family me poore 9 members the jinke naam neeche diye hin;
1. Syed Abid ( Mere Waalid)
2. Maher (Mere Waalida)
3. Manik (Mere Bade bhai)
4. Asma (Meri Badi Bahen)
5. Heer (Meri Doosri Badi Bahen)
6. Ayaan ( Mere Doosre bade Bhai)
7. Gulbadan ( Meri Teesri Badi Bahen)
8. Ifteqara (Meri aakhri aur chohti badi bahen)
9. Abdul Razzaq (aur ye Mi )
Abdul Razzaq ke Paidaish Ka Waqia:
Ye baat hi 15th August 1982 ki jsi din mi paida hua tha, meri waalida ke kul 6 bachche the aur saatwan mi jo abhi bhi unke pet me tha. Baaki saare bachchon ki delivery normal aur ghar pe hui thi likin meri scissoring se hui. Wo aise hua yun ke meri waalda ko achanak 14th August 1982 ki raat ko labor pain shuru hogaya likin bahut koshish karne ke baad bhi delivery nahi hopaarahi thi, tu mere waalid aur mere ghar ke pados waale sab milkar meri waalida ko Extension ki Unity Hospital me admit karwaya. Aur waalid sahib ne doctors ko taakid ki aur bataya ke meri waalida ka saare deliveries normal hi hue the likin isbaar labor pain hone ke bawajood delivery normal nahi ho paarahi thi. Doctors ne raat bhar koshish ki normal delivery karne ki magar nakaam rahe, phir doctors ne mere waalid se kaha ke agar ab scissoring nahi kiya tu bachcha aur maa donon ku khatra hi . Mere waalid ne kaafi soch vichar ke baad 15th August 1982 ko scissoring ki manzoori dedi. Baaton baton me mi aapko ye bataana bhool gaya ke meri waalida bahut fair thi aur bahut parde waali aurat thi unko dekh kar mohalle ki saari aurten sar per dupatta oodha karti thi . Mohall eke saare log meri waalida ka bahut ehtram karte the jistrah filmon me thakur thakurain ki izzat karte hin. Chalo waalid ki permission ke baad doctors ne poore 3.30 ghante ke waqt liya aur ek nannah se payara sa bachcha paida hua, jsika rang sawla, gol matol, aur wazan poore 7KG ka tha. Usko dekhne ke liye saare mohalle waale aaye, news paper waale bhi aaye wo bachca koi aur nahi mi yaane Abdul Razaq tha.
Meri waalida ko abhi hosh nahi aaya tha unko poore gyara (11) stitches lage hue the, unko neend me bhi ye baat andar hi andar khaye jaa rahi thi ke aaj tak mujhe kisi gair mard ne dekha tak nahi aaj is delivery ki wajah se mujhe gair mardon ne haat lagaya yaane doctors ne. Kareeb raat ke gyara baje meri waalida ko hosh aaya aur unko washroom jaane ki zaroorat mahesoos hui. Bagal me meri phuperi qaala leti hui thi meri waalida ne unko disturb karna sahi nahi samjha aur apne aap uthne ki koshish ki aur uthne me kamayab bhi hogaye. Aapko ek baat zaheen nashin kardun ke unko stitches lage hui the aur wo bhi kachche the, aur aap sab jaante hin pet me stitches lage hin tu kam se kam complete 1 ya 2 din ka bed rest karna padta hi, ye baat meri waalida ko bhi pata tha likin wo khuddar aurat thi.
Aur jaise mine bataya meri waalida ne meri qaala ko nahi uthaya akele hi washroom ko chal padi, us zamaane me Devanahalli jo ab smart city me jama hi utna improved nahi tha aur us samay me Bapuji ke alawa Unity Hospital bhi jaane mane hospital me gina jaata tha, likin saari cheezen shaher ki tarqi pe aur yahan ke logon pe depend karti hi ke kahan pe kya sahulat honi chahiye, in laparwahiyun ka jurmana yahan pe meri waalida ko chukana pada, ek tu wo kisi ko saat me nahi legayi thi aur washroom bed se door tha jahan se wo meri qaala ko bhi awaaz deti tu awaaz pahunch nahi paati, hua yun ke wo jab washroom pahunchi tu dekha ke wahan pe na tu western toilet tha aur natoilet chair tha phir bhi meri waalida himmat waali thi wo apni saari taaqat se neeche baaith kar apni zarooriyat poori ki aur ooper uthne ki koshish ki, zyada taqat lagane ki wajah se unke jo stitches abhi bhi kachche the wo khul gaye. Phir bhi meri waalida ne himmat nahi haari aise taise karke uth khadi hui aur dekha ke stitches khulne ki wajah se unke aant bahar nikal rahe hin, apne donon haaton se un stitches ko moochni ki koshish karte hui bed ki taraf nikal padi. Jaise hi bed ki kareeb pahunchi unko dard saha nahi gaya aur mooh se cheekh nikal gayi jis ki wajah se meri qaala jo soyi hui thi jag gayi aur kya dekhti hi ke meri waalida apne stitches khule hui jagah ko donon haaton se zor se dabaye hui behosh padi hi, gabhrati hui qaale ne jaldi se daud lagayi wahan ke duty doctors aur nurses ku pakad layi likin afsoos us waqt tak bahut der hochuki thi meri waalida Allah ko pyari hogayi thi.
“ Inna Lilla hi Wa Inna Ilaihi Rajioon ”
Aur hone kya tha saare mohalle me ek matam ka mahul cha gaya, kayi logo ko tu yaqeen hi nahi hua aur wajah poochte the ke kaise hua unka inteqal. Us zamaane me mohalle ki aurten meri waalida ko apna roll model maanti thi. Jab logon ko wajah pata chalti tu saare log aakar mere jhoole ke paas mujhe dekhte, kuch log afsoos karte ke bechara maa ko isne dekha bhi nahi, isne maa ka doodh bhi nahi piya kaise rahe paayega. Aur kuch log aakar mujhe konste ke kamina ladka duniya me qadam rakhte hi apni maa ko kha gaya, manhos hi saala aur kitne logon ko khayega. Us waqt matam ka mahul itna tha ke meri taraf mera qayal koi nahi kar raha tha, achanak meri qaala jo hospital me meri waalida ke saat thi usko mera qayal aaya, doudti hui meri jhoole ke paas aayi aur mujhe khamosh apne goodh me uthaya choomti rahi, mujhe bosa deti rahi aur kaheti gayi ke tu meri bahen ki akhri nishani hi tujhe mi apne seene se laga kar rakhungi, tujhe mi apne bachchon se bhi badh kar pyar dungi bolti hui mujhe usne apna doodh pilaya. Jaise taise din nikalta gaya meri waalida ko nahela kar kafan pahenaya gaya, jo bhi rishtedar, dost wagaira aane waale the sab achuke the tu unko janaaze me rakha aur P.B road ke qabristan me Janaaze ki namaaz padhi, dua ki gayi aur unko dafnaya gaya. Saare log apne pane raaste pe nikal pade.
Doosre din saare rishtedar housla afzai ke liye mere ghar aagaye, baton baton me logon ne kaha ke is bachche ka kya hoga. Mere ek chote chacha the jinko koi aulad nahi thi unhone kaha ke dekh bhai Abid baji Allah ne tujh ko bahut bachche diye hin aur tu tu jaanta hin meri shaadi ko 14 saal hogaye mujhe koi aulad nahi hui kyun na tu is bachche ko mere hawale karde take mi isko apna waaris bana sakun, doosri oor se meri phuppu ne zor se awaaz lagayi ye qabar daar koi is bachche ko haat lagaya tu is bachche ko mi lejaongi, kyunki unko bhi shaadi hui 30 saal hogaye the koi aulad nahi hui thi aur ab aulad hone ke koi chances bhi nahi the, mere waalid khamosh baithe in logon ki baaaten sun rahe the achanak mere mamu aur mere qaalu ne bola ke dekho bhai ye meri bahen ki aaqri nishani hi isko hum kisi ko lejaane nahi denge haan agar Bhai jaan (yaani mere waalid) doosri shaadi karlen tu sahi rahega is bachche ki dekh baal ke saat aapke bhi sehat ka qayal hojayega. Mere waalid gusse se apne haat jhatakte hue uthe aur kaha meri biwi ka inteqal hue abhi ek din bhi nahi guzra aap kya wahiyat baaten kar rahe ho. Ye mera bachcha hi, meri biwi ki aaqri nishani, agar Allah ne ise duniya me bheja hi tu iska muqadar likh kar bheja hi ke ye bin maa ke hi palega aur iska dekh baal karne ke liye maa jaisi 4 bahenen hi wo karinga. Itna sunna tha ke andar se meri badi bahen aayi mujhe aapne bahun me liya aur roote hue andar chali gayi. Tu mere waalid ne meri badi bahen ki taraf ishara kar ke bataya dekha bas wo ladkiyan mere faisla ka intezar kar rahi thi, agar mi galat faisla leta tu zindagi bhar mi unka mujrim hojaata jo unki maa ki aakhri nishani hi un se cheen lejaane waala ban jaata. Aage se iske bare me koi bahes nahi hogi. Koi is bachche ko lejaane ke bare me ya meri shaadi ke bare me baat nahi karega agar koi in baton ke karne ka aadi hi tu usko mere ghar me koi jagah nahi.
Saare log mere waalid ko gusse me dekh kar samajh gay eke unhone job hi kaha galat kaha, eke k karke sabhi ne maafi maangi mere sar pe haat ghumaya hum sab ko dua dete hue apne apne ghar nikal pade. Yahan tak tha Abdul Razzaq ki viladat ka waqia. Aage ke hisse me hum padenge Abdul Razzaq ki parvarish.
Abdul Razzaq ki Parvarish
Dosto jaise ki aapne pichle hisse me dekha mere waalid ne meri parvarish ki zimmedari meri bahenon pe daal di. Meri badqismati dekho na mine maa ka doodh piya aur na meri bahenen jo abhi kunwari thi wo apna doodh pila sakti thi. Mere ghar me saare ke saare kunware kisi ko bachche ko sambhalne ka kuch bhi tajruba nahi tha, Allah bhala kare meri qaala ka aur unko karwat karwat jannat naseeb farmaye jinhone meri bahenon ko mujhe paalne ka tariqa bataya, aur kabhi kabhi wo apna doodh piliya bhi karti thi. Meri qaala ne meri bahenon ko samjhaya ke bachche ko paani kaise nahelate hin, agar bachcha raat me roye tu usko kaise sulate hin, agar bachche ko motion ho tu kya karna chahiye wagaira wagaira.
Mujhe rakhne ya sulane ki baat tak tu theek tha likin sawal uth raha tha ke mujhe doodh kahan se piliayen aur konsa, kyunki meri qaala tu har waqt mere ghar me nahi rahe sakti thi, kyunki wo bhi shaadi shuda aur bachchon waali thi uska bhi ghar baar tha jisko use sambhalna tha. Tu mere waalid ne decide kiya ke mujhe shudh gaye ka doodh pilaya jaaye. Us zamaane ghar ghar doodh waale nahi aate the hume khud doodh waalun ke paas jaake laana padta tha, ghar ke paas jo doodh waala ata thaw o bottle ka doodh deta tha jo bilkul paani hua karta tha aur mujhe shudh ghadha doodh chahiye the. Mere waalid ne mere doosre Bade bhai Heer ko iskaam pe laga diya. Unki roz ki duty thi wo cycle pe jaaye doodh waale ke paas bina paani mila doodh lekar aaye. Aur wo bechara har roz cycle pe jaakar doodh late meri do badi bahenen us doodh ko garam kar ke imaandari se mujhe pilaya karti thi. Din me meri paheli badi bahen mera khayal rakhti thi aur raat me meri doosri badi bahen khayal rakhti thi.
Mere waalid taajir the har roz wo bazaar jaate sham ko thak kar mere saat thoda khel ke akele bait kar kuch Allah ka zikar kar ke so jaata. Kuch dinon baad mere waalid ne apne saat mere bade bhai yani Manik ko bhi saat me bazaar lejaana shuru kiya. Kyunki mere waalid ki tabiyat din ba din bigadti jaarahi thi waalida ko yaad kar kar ke. Mere bade bhai bahut Danish the jinhone kuch dinon me mere waalid ka saara kaam kaaj samajh liya aur waalid ki tabiyat ka khayal rakhte hue kaha baba aapne bahut bhag daud karli ab aap aaram se ghar me baitho mi bazaar sambhalta hon. Ek raaz ki baat bataon mere waalid apne bade ladke per bahut bharosa karte the aur bahut pyar bhi aur zahir si baat hi koi bhi ho apne paheli aulad ko bahut chahta hi. Dekhte hi dekhte mere bhai tijarat me tarqiyun pe parqi karte gaye aur bazaar jaane mane logon me gine jaane lage. Jis ko dekh kar mere waalid bahut faqar karne lag eke mere faisla galat nahi tha jo mine business ki bhagdaud mere bade ladke ke haat me thama di.
Din pe din guzar te gaye aur pata nahi chala mi kaise 7 saal ka hogaya. Mi shukar guzar hon us Allah ka jisne mujh se meri ek maa tu leli likin usne maa jaisi chaar bahene dedi. Islam me sikhaya jaata hi ke apni aulad ko saat saal ki umar se hi namaaz ki taakid karo tu mere waalid bahut Allah waale insaan the unhone waise hi kiya mujhe har roz subah me fajar ki namaaz ko uthate aur mi 4 maaon ki goad me pala hua behoshi ki neend sota tha likin phir bhi mere waalid uff na karta subah ke 5 baje se lekar tulu aftab tak mujhe uthaya karte, jaise jaise waqt guzarta gaya mujhe bhi subah ki namaaz ko uthne ki aadat padh gayi. Subah sawere namaaz padhta phir madrese ko jaata aur wapas School ko jaana padhta. Har waqt mera dhyan khel me raheta school ko jaane ke liye mi zameen asmaan ek kar deta, likin us waqt meri koun sunega chahe mi zameen sar pe uthao ya asman mujhe tu school jaana hi padta tha. Mere doosre bade bhai Heer sab mujhe apne kandhe pe daal kar lejaate, raaste me mi unke baal kheenchta, chillata, galiyan deta, unku jhapad bhi lagata magar apni zuban se uff tak na karte mujhe saat me pyar se school tak chod aate. Raaste me itna halla machine ke baad school me hamari pungi band hojaati, hum chup chap school ki padhayi padhte. Jaise hi sham hoti school se ghar aise apahunchte jaise kisi qaidi ko umar qaid ki saza maaf ki gayi ho. Ghar pahunch kar apni bag kahin kone me phenk kar paheli fursat me apni aakhri bahen ko dhoonte aur unki saheliyun ke saat rassi ya patthar phenkne ka khel khelte. Aur raat ko dua wagaira padh kar sojaate dosre din wapas wahi safar har roz ka shuru.
Poore hafte me maza sirf Jumma ke din aata. Hum log Jumma ki tayyari subah ki namaaz se hi kar dete. Pahele tu mere waalid mujhe apne saat lekar ghosht lane jaate, phir ghosht lekar ghar wapas aakar kapde wagaira istri karne waale ke paas kapde istri kar ke mujhe wo khud nahelate baad me wo khud naha kar mujhe kapde pahena kar attar lagate aur azaan ke 30 minute pahele hi hum masjid pahunch jaate. Jumma ka khutba sunne ke baad kuch der hum apni dukan pe baith kar wahan ka haal chaal malum karte, phir wahan se hum bazaar nikal jaate take kuch phal wagaira lelen. Wapas ghar aakar gosht kha ke mast magan hokar sojaate. Wapas Sanichar se wahi routine shuru mera rona dhona bhai ka mujhe school chod aana, aur jumma tak aise hi chalta.
Ab mi 8 Saal ka hochuka tha, ghar me sab kuch tha, mere waalid aur mere bade bhai ne mujhe kabhi kisi cheez ki kami mahesoos hone nahi di, mere bade bhai ki umar is waqt 27 saal thi tu unke liye mere taayere ladki ka rishta aaya aur saat me meri doosri badi bahen ko ek pahelwan ke ghar se rishta aaya. Mere waalid ne raaye mashora kiya aur un donon ki shaadi ki date fix kardi. Aage ke hisse me mi aapko un donon ki shaadi aur shaadi ke baad ki zindagi bataonga. Ab ke liye aap sabhi logon ki dua ka muntazir hon.
Allah Haafiz.
